Each year we teach a 4-5 week series on giving and generosity in Feb/March. This year we titled our series The Treasure Principle, based on Randy Alcorn’s book by the same name. We also sent a copy of the book to every giver on record the previous year and encouraged the church to read a chapter each week that matched the upcoming sermon theme.
If you’ve not read the book, it’s a quick read and probably one of the best on the subject. I highly recommend it.
If you’re a pastor, you probably feel the same angst I feel when I address the subject. Even though my heart is in the right place, I can’t help but think some people feel I’m being self-serving when I teach the subject.
Here’s what I do to help mitigate those thoughts in people’s minds.
First, I make sure my heart is right.
- Do I faithfully give?
- Do I tithe and give beyond?
- Do I teach from a desire that others experience the joy of generosity or because we are not making the church budget?
Second, in my talk I acknowledge at the beginning what some people feel. I actually say something like, “I recognize that when a pastor talks on money it can appear self serving. I know that some of you may be thinking, “I really don’t want to hear some preacher talk about money.’ I would just ask that you lower you guard a bit, listen to what I have to say, and then decide how you want to respond. It’s between you and God.”
Third, I tell my giving story. In my message this past week I explained that my wife and I had faithfully tithed and beyond since we were married. I also shared that my parents taught me to give at an early age and that a comment from my 5th grade Sunday School teacher left an indelible imprint in my life that put me on the path to generosity. When people hear our honest stories, it can help lower their guard and resistance to the message.
When I began in ministry 30 years ago, I’d often shy away from the money subject. However, I now realize that giving is as much a part of discipleship as is Bible reading and prayer. I can’t shy away from it, but must approach the subject with tact and grace.
If you’d like a great guide to help you develop a stewardship system, I highly recommend Maximize: How to Develop Extravagant Givers in Your Church by Nelson Searcy.
So, what has helped you get the money message across?
If you are not a pastor, what advice would you give to us about how to effectively encourage people to give?
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The 4 Reasons People Give to Their Church
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