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06.12.13 6:59 AM

How to Make Boring Church Announcements Memorable

06.12.13 6:59 AM
06.12.13 6:59 AM

I grew up in the church and by my calculation I’ve heard 10,931 church announcements, or thereabouts. I only remember one of them. What did I only remember that one?

Before I give you the answer, I must confess that for me announcements are the most boring part of a service, yet mostly necessary. I’ve felt more stress from having to give them than when I’ve had to speak. I simply hate giving announcements. I guess I don’t like them because I see most people’s eyes glaze over during announcement time.

So why did I just remember the one I referred to?

How to make boring church announcements memorable Dr Charles stone

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Published on Wednesday, June 12, 2013 @ 6:59 AM CDT
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05.23.13 4:45 AM

7 Ways to Make a Graceful Exit and Leave Your Church Well

05.23.13 4:45 AM
05.23.13 4:45 AM

7 ways to make a graceful exit and leave well Dr. Charles StoneUnless you stay at the same church your entire life, you will leave one ministry or church and go to another, perhaps several times. In fact, the average pastor in the U.S. stays at one place about four years.

I’ve served at five different churches in my 33 years in ministry and have always sought to leave well. I’ve learned that leaving is more of an art and is often difficult. Here are 7 insights I’ve learned that have helped me make a graceful exit.

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Published on Thursday, May 23, 2013 @ 4:45 AM CDT
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05.13.13 1:16 AM

5 Reasons Why Every Church Needs a Staff-Board Conflict Resolution Strategy

05.13.13 1:16 AM
05.13.13 1:16 AM

The board meetings have begun to sour. Increasingly the pastor and his board have heated conversations about the church’s direction. The conflict has bled into every meeting for months. Emotions are running high. Conflict reaches a flash point. There is no written plan on how to deal with it. 

What happens? The board either sends the pastor packing or he quits out of frustration.

A rarity? No. Over 1500 pastors are forced from the ministry each month and many more pastors simply quit because they’re broken. Many are pondering leaving right now.

When emotions run rampant among pastors and boards, thoughtfulness seldom prevails. Our emotional brain hijacks our thinking brain.

So what is the solution to this problem? A written, clear, agreed-upon conflict resolution process. Here are 5 reasons your church needs one.

5 reasons why churches need conflict resolution policies Dr. Charles Stone

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Published on Monday, May 13, 2013 @ 1:16 AM CDT
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05.10.13 1:21 AM

3 Ways to Defeat Leadership Discouragement

05.10.13 1:21 AM
05.10.13 1:21 AM

Discouragement comes with the territory for ministry leaders. Unmet goals, putting out fires, staff issues, displeasing people, and general tiredness all contribute to discouragement. When it weighs us down, how can we dig out?

The life of the prophet Elijah gives us hope.

I Kings 18-19 tells the story of his amazing confrontation with the prophets of Baal. The people of Israel had gathered on Mount Carmel along with 450 prophets of Asherah. They set up a sacrifice and the 450 pagan prophets summoned their gods to provide rain. Nothing happened. Then Elijah summoned the one, true God who showed His power by not only consuming the sacrifice but also ending the drought.

You’d think that after God showed up in such a powerful way, twice, that Elijah would be on a spiritual and emotional high. Not so. After these great victories, he ran for his life, thinking he was the only true prophet left.  He literally wanted to die. But God did not leave him alone. I Kings 19 explains how he cared for him.

Three lessons stand out about how we can defeat leadership discouragement.

3 Ways to Defeat Leadership Discouragement Dr. Charles Stone

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Published on Friday, May 10, 2013 @ 1:21 AM CDT
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05.08.13 1:13 AM

5 Ways to Minimize Ministry Silos

05.08.13 1:13 AM
05.08.13 1:13 AM

Patrick Lencioni brought the concept of silos into the leadership conversation with this great book, Silos, Politics, and Turf WarsSilos occur in organizations and churches when leaders act like their ministry or team is the only one that matters. A silo attitude results in that leader or team only supporting, giving, or attending functions that pertain to them. It can be kill a ministry and result in these problems.

  • Unhealthy competition
  • Jealousy
  • Hurt feelings
  • Pride
  • Lack of trust
  • Fighting over limited resources
  • Foot dragging
  • Politics

So how can a leader minimize ministry silos? Below I suggest a key foundation and then 5 pillars to build on that foundation to rid your ministry of silos.

5 Ways to Minimize Ministry Silos Dr. Charles Stone

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Published on Wednesday, May 8, 2013 @ 1:13 AM CDT
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05.06.13 1:00 AM

5 Reasons Why Every Pastor Needs a Coach, and Why I’m Getting One

05.06.13 1:00 AM
05.06.13 1:00 AM

After 32 years working in a church, I stepped down last year after a fulfilling 7½ year run as a senior pastor in Aurora, IL. This past year I’ve accomplished several things.

  • Completed a book for Inter-Varsity Press called People-Pleasing Pastors: Avoiding the Pitfalls of Approval Motivate Leadership. It releases in February of 2014.
  • Almost completed another book on the subject of neuroleadership for Christian leaders (intersects brain-based insights with the Bible).
  • Created the foundation for my consulting/coaching ministry for pastors.
  • Formed an animation company called BullsEye Animations.  
  • Traveled to Canada, Haiti, and Mexico to train pastor-leaders.
  • Preached in several churches.
  • Almost completed an Executive Masters in the Science of Neuroleadership.

I’ve been busy accomplishing many things, but I’m at a transition point in my life. I want to go back into church ministry as a lead pastor. To help me in this transition, I’ve hired a wonderful Christian coach, Kim Avery, to guide me through the process. I’ve scheduled several phone coaching sessions with her. Here are the five reasons I'm getting a coach this year.

Why pastors need a coach Dr. charles Stone

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Published on Monday, May 6, 2013 @ 1:00 AM CDT
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04.16.13 1:11 AM

Pastor, are You Hooked on Being Right?

04.16.13 1:11 AM
04.16.13 1:11 AM

You’ve been wrestling with a ministry challenge and you believe you’ve found the right answer. At the next elder meeting you share your idea and one elder begins to voice opposition. Because you feel so strongly that you’re right you begin to raise your voice, talk faster, and talk over others who want to engage in the conversation. Tension escalates. Anger rises. You think, “How dare they think I’m wrong. I know I’m right.”

What happened?

And what should a leader do?

Pastor, are you hooked on being right? Dr. Charles Stone

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Published on Tuesday, April 16, 2013 @ 1:11 AM CDT
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04.11.13 1:02 AM

Brain-friendly Change: Sticky Tip 4

04.11.13 1:02 AM
04.11.13 1:02 AM

I’m in a 5-part blog series that gives a brain-friendly tip you can use to make your organizational changes brain-friendly so that they stick. Today’s is Sticky Tip 4: Invite input

Brain-friendly Change: Sticky Tip Dr. Charles Stone

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Published on Thursday, April 11, 2013 @ 1:02 AM CDT
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03.11.13 1:36 AM

Stack your Leadership Teams with your BFF’s-good or bad?

03.11.13 1:36 AM
03.11.13 1:36 AM

BFF: Shorthand for "best friends forever" 

Used mostly by teen girls when texting

You may have never used this texting shorthand, but the concept captures essential human nature. We all want a few best friends. We need them. In fact, the Scriptures speak positively about friends

  • A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity. (Prov 17.17, NIV)
  • A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. (Prov 18.24)
  • If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! (Eccl 4.10)

But considering leadership teams, should we fill our upper level teams such as deacons, elders, or key leadership staff with best friends? I share a true story below from a pastor friend, but I’ve changed the details enough to protect anonymity.

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Published on Monday, March 11, 2013 @ 1:36 AM CDT
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03.04.13 1:52 AM

8 Ways to Make Church Change Run Smoother

03.04.13 1:52 AM
03.04.13 1:52 AM

In your church you’re probably trying to bring change in some way or are contemplating it. Unfortunately, change in our churches often doesn’t go so well. In fact, we’re not alone. In the business world some have estimating that the majority of organizational change either fails, underperforms, or makes things worse (Cope, 2003). I imagine that church change doesn't fare much better.

However, we don't have to become a statistic. Consider 8 these insights the next time you try to bring change to your church, ministry, or organization.

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Published on Monday, March 4, 2013 @ 1:52 AM CDT
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02.28.13 1:17 AM

Five Neuroscience Techniques that Improve Brainstorming

02.28.13 1:17 AM
02.28.13 1:17 AM

I’m a pastor and I’m intrigued with how God created our brains for effective communication and healthy team dynamics.

Recently I started a small side business called BullsEyeAnimations  to create ‘white board’ animations for companies that want to communicate difficult concepts, train employees, or market their products.

I manage the process, create the script, and do the voiceover for the animation (done by an animator). I recently spent a half-day with four members of a company that had hired us to create a three-minute animation to explain a very complicated proprietary brokerage service they offer.

I used several neuroscience techniques in that meeting that you might try the next time you lead a brainstorming session.

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Published on Thursday, February 28, 2013 @ 1:17 AM CDT
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02.26.13 1:29 AM

7 Neuroscience Keys to Effective Performance Reviews

02.26.13 1:29 AM
02.26.13 1:29 AM

Almost every year in my 32 years in ministry I’ve spent multiple hours preparing and delivering multiple staff performance reviews. I was shocked to recently learn that I may have been wasting my time.

In a meta-study (a study of the studies) researchers discovered that only 30% of feedback and performance reviews actually helped (Kluger & DeNisi,1996). They discovered that 30% have no impact and 40% actually make things worse, not a very good track record.

I wonder how many of us pastoral leaders would agree with those statistics? 

Does that mean we should drop performance reviews? 

No, not at all. Every leader can improve the performance review process through being more intentional with these these 7 C’s. When a review process includes these factors, neuroscience research indicates that real change can occur.

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Published on Tuesday, February 26, 2013 @ 1:29 AM CDT
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02.22.13 1:48 AM

6 Reasons Your Church Isn’t Growing

02.22.13 1:48 AM
02.22.13 1:48 AM

My friend Dr. Aubrey Malphurs is one of the top church leadership experts in the country today. He's written over 20 books and knows his stuff. This week his latest book, Look before you Lead, hits the bookstores. I asked him to write this guest post today. Read it with interest and consider adding this book to your library.

Why don't churches grow? Consider these 6 reasons Dr. Malphurs has discovered that causes many churches to stagnate.

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Published on Friday, February 22, 2013 @ 1:48 AM CDT
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01.31.13 1:51 AM

Craveable: 5 Reasons You Should Read this Book by Artie Davis

01.31.13 1:51 AM
01.31.13 1:51 AM

Artie Davies, one of the most influential Christian leaders today, pastors Cornerstone Church, a growing multi-campus church based in Orangeburg, SC. An avid blogger, he also leads the movement called “The Sticks Network” that empowers and develops pastors from small cities. He’s one of my favorite bloggers and has one of the coolest websites around. 

His first book, Craveable, comes out this week and it’s a winner. Ron Edmondson, another influential pastor, blogger, and leader wrote the foreword. His endorsement speaks loads in itself.

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Published on Thursday, January 31, 2013 @ 1:51 AM CDT
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01.29.13 1:38 AM

Motivate your Teams with these 4 Neuroscience Keys

01.29.13 1:38 AM
01.29.13 1:38 AM

Motivating staff and volunteers in your church is often as elusive as nailing Jell-O to a tree. Yet to move our churches from point ‘A’ to point ‘B’ we must motivate those around us. Often pastors use the same ‘carrot-and-stick’ approach the marketplace has used for decades. If you do such-and-such you will receive a reward (salary increase, pat on the back, etc). If you don’t, you’ll get something negative: you won’t receive the reward, you will have to step down, etc. We’re now learning that this approach does not work in the long term.

However, neuroscience is discovering effective ways to motivate others based on how our brains work. Consider putting these four brain-based ideas into your motivation toolbox.

 

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Published on Tuesday, January 29, 2013 @ 1:38 AM CDT
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01.15.13 1:43 AM

Hierarchy or Equality among Church Staff? This will surprise you.

01.15.13 1:43 AM
01.15.13 1:43 AM

Many businesses, and churches as well, are minimizing overt hierarchy arrangements in favor of more equal staff relationships. Open space offices have also become popular while at the same time org charts seem to have largely disappeared.

I believe I understand one reason why: trust in institutions and leaders has dramatically dropped. As a result, leaders have created open space office arrangements, focused more on teamwork through groupthink, and deemphasized staff pecking order.

I know one mega-church where nobody has a private office and a team collaboratively develops every sermon. I know of another church that changed a senior pastor led leadership model to a model where three pastors co-lead: a teaching pastor, a ‘lead’ pastor, and an executive pastor.

But has creating more open space settings, focusing more on ‘we’ versus ‘I’ in productivity, and downplaying reporting relationships by eliminating tools like org charts actually hindered progress? Recent research may indicate that might be the case.

 

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Published on Tuesday, January 15, 2013 @ 1:43 AM CDT
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12.06.12 2:24 AM

Are you a Transactional Leader or a Transformational Leader? Take this test and find out.

12.06.12 2:24 AM
12.06.12 2:24 AM

Recently I was privileged to hear Dr. James Galvin speak on leadership.  He’s authored many books on the subject and has consulted with such organizations as the Willow Creek Assocation, Zondervan, and Wycliffe. He explained a concept called “The Full Range Leadership Model” which contrasts transactional leadership from transformational leadership. You can find a really cool visual that describes the two here.  

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Published on Thursday, December 6, 2012 @ 2:24 AM CDT
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09.12.12 10:24 AM

Staff Performance Reviews: Do they help or hinder?

09.12.12 10:24 AM
09.12.12 10:24 AM

As a senior pastor I’ve performed annual staff performance reviews for years thinking that I was helping those leaders improve their performance. But recent neuroscience has shown that negative feedback (including such feedback given in evaluations) may actually hurt the self-esteem of those we evaluate. If staff evaluations potentially hurt the cause rather than help, should we eliminate the evaluations or make some other changes?

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Published on Wednesday, September 12, 2012 @ 10:24 AM CDT
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08.27.12 2:06 PM

3 Things That Pastors And Church Leaders Can Do That Will Always Work

08.27.12 2:06 PM
08.27.12 2:06 PM

Brian Dodd is one of my favorite bloggers. He has a real knack to pick up on what's currently happening in the world and extract really cool leadership  insights. He's one of those guys I believe church leader should follow and read regularly. He is a Generosity Architect and leadership consultant for INJOY Stewardship Solutions and he's invested in many of the country's top church leaders.

It's an honor to have him as a guest blogger today, I picked one of my favorite posts he's written. Not only is this a great post, but all the other blogs listed are gems as well. So, enjoy.

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Published on Monday, August 27, 2012 @ 2:06 PM CDT
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08.16.12 9:32 AM

6 Ways to Add Interest to your Leadership Training Meetings

08.16.12 9:32 AM
08.16.12 9:32 AM

Sustaining and growing a healthy church requires systematic leadership training. To lead most effectively, staff, boards, and volunteers need to constantly improve their knowledgebase and skills. I’m enrolled in a two-year program to get a masters degree in neuroleadership (check out the cool animation about neuroleadership here: www.charlesstone.com). In a recent webinar lecture, my teacher used a technique that pastors can use to increase attention and retention in their leadership training meetings. Here’s what she did.

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Published on Thursday, August 16, 2012 @ 9:32 AM CDT
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02.06.12 9:31 AM

Why Smart Pastors Fail

02.06.12 9:31 AM
02.06.12 9:31 AM

failing, failI just finished reading You're in Charge--Now What by Thomas Neff and James Citrin. The book targets leaders moving into new positions. Whether or not you find yourself in a new ministry role, read this book. It's a great read.

The last chapter is worth the price. The authors give ten traps for new

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Published on Monday, February 6, 2012 @ 9:31 AM CDT
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07.21.11 10:08 AM

5 Really Bad Ways Pastors React when People Compare Them to more Successful Churches

07.21.11 10:08 AM
07.21.11 10:08 AM

This week I'm posting a series of blogs about how pastors respond when people in their church compare their leadership and preaching to others or when they brag about another church by insinuating that we don't measure upreact, reactions, emotionality

Yesterday I posted 5 ways we should respond when we feel compared to others

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Published on Thursday, July 21, 2011 @ 10:08 AM CDT
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07.14.11 10:25 AM

8 Mistakes I've Made when Hiring Church Staff

07.14.11 10:25 AM
07.14.11 10:25 AM

pastor's mistakes when hiring church staffI've hired several pastors and admin staff in my ministry of 30 plus years and I've made some great choices and some not so great ones as well.

These mistakes have contributed to my poor selections.

  1. Not pursuing the yellow flags that nagged at the back of my mind.
  2. Refusing to REALLY ask other key
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Published on Thursday, July 14, 2011 @ 10:25 AM CDT
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07.26.10 8:54 AM

360 Degree Assessment-an invaluable tool for leadership growth

07.26.10 8:54 AM
07.26.10 8:54 AM

Leaders need healthy feedback to lead well. An excellent process, a 360 assessment, has helped me grow in several areas.

Simply put, as the diagram pictures, a 360 assessment seeks input from your peers, your supervisor, your subordinates, and a few others.

I've had two 360's done on me, one very

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Published on Monday, July 26, 2010 @ 8:54 AM CDT
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